blown-off by doc - LONG
2008-05-31 15:11:30Okay, I'm fine now (for the moment anyway) and able to think clearly enough
about the
events of the last two-and-a-half days to be very angry! I'm just wondering if
anyone has
any feedback about my doc's office because I'm VERY angry now that I'm putting
the whole
thing together in my head. Keep in mind that I like my doc very much, but she
is very
hard to get an appt with. I called a week or two ago wanting to get in because
of a flare
and they said my appt on Jan. 12th was the best they could do. I called several
days after
that with pain and they called-in some Darvocet. This past Thursday afternoon,
my knee
began to hurt and got to the point on Friday that I couldn't walk without
assistance and I
was in excruciating pain. I called the doc office and they were closed until
Tuesday. The
answering service gave me a very pat, matter-of-fact "we're closed until
Tuesday". When I
pressed on, I got "the doctor on call doesn't call-in pain medications". I
didn't even ASK
for pain medications! When I told the answering service that I was pregnant, it
was like
she was terrified to page the doctor. I wouldn't let up, saying that I wanted
to speak with a
doctor and she finally said she would have the on-call physician call me, but
that she
wasn't going to tell him that I was pregnant (presumably because he would be
angry with
her for bothering him with someone he can't prescribe drugs to, even though,
according
to her, he won't prescribe anything over the phone anyway). So, this doc
obviously sees
his role as to use a prescription pad and THAT'S ALL - that he has NO other
service,
wisdom, comfort, expertise to offer???!!! Anyway, he called and I explained my
situation.
He said I could probably take the Darvocet if I really needed it, but he asked
me NO
questions, gave me NO advice on whether or not to move my knee or use hot/cold
therapy
or increase prednisone or knee brace or ANYTHING. He said if I had to be seen,
go the ER.
He didn't mention that pregnant women can't get cortizone injections. I had no
idea about
this until my husband found this out from Walgreen's. Good thing I didn't spend
a painful
day at the ER only to be informed of that and CHARGED for it! I guess you have
to let them hear you in your full dramatic, screeching
agony before they "get it". that's sad. i plan to
tell my regular rheumy all about it, along with my
frustration about not being able to get appts with her
when I really need them. i like her so much, but i
cannot con't to use a doc that i can't see when i'm
most in need. i'm also going to talk to her about how
i tend to be doing really well when i see her in the
office and that i'm so conscious of drug-seeking (I
work in psychiatry) that i'm downplaying my own pain,
at times when i really should make quite a fuss,
because i'm so worried they'll think i'm just
drug-seeking. anyway, what do any of you think about my on-call experience????